Dex Hardlove showing off his fur and muscles against the ivy
Cute photo from a shoot I did with Amy Bexxx in NYC, who’s ready for a ride? ;)
triplea85 asked: Sorry in advance for the complex question, but I'm curious. Do you date? If so, do you tend to date cis men, women, other trans/queer individuals, all of the above? And when dating, do you find it more difficult to come out (for want of a better phrase) as trans than you do to come out as a pornographer?
As tempting as it is to lock myself away in a chaste and untouchable porn tower, or pull an Annie Sprinkle and marry the ocean and never log into okcupid again, I have been known to venture outside and go on dates! I have loved and dated people of many different genders. I go through periods of being more into men or women, but generally speaking I find that I am most attracted to femininity of many kinds. I usually lay my porn and trans cards out on the table from the beginning because they are such large and unavoidable parts of my life, and have had few issues when disclosing those parts of myself to other people. I tend to date people who identify as some kind of queer and who have similarly radical politics and have found few issues surrounding my status as a trans sex worker, but even the handful of straight women I’ve dated have not been phased by it either. I’ve been very lucky and acknowledge that I have a lot of privilege as a passing white man, and being a porn performer is usually more socially acceptable for men than it is for women and probably has something to do with it. The most challenging part of dating for me has been the intersection of my work and personal life. I try to maintain a separation but it is nearly impossible in a small community, but that is a whole thesis in itself to answer.
Anonymous asked: What sex were you technically born? I love you by the way babe <3 xoxoxo
I was assigned female at birth, though technically I was born an archangel but I betrayed God and fell to Earth and we dont talk about that part of my life anymore